How safe do you feel? Seems like a simple question at first doesn’t it? It might trigger a thought process that involves assessing physical safety in the main, perhaps a little more. But there’s so much more to this question. This is a deep, deep enquiry, should you wish to entertain it. I would imagine more women than men may be able to access this question on a basic level when thinking of safety in terms of their relationship to men, prompted mainly by difference in physi

There’s nothing new here. We all know the theory. But these words are being brought through with ever deepening levels of understanding about the absolutely, non negotiable, crucially important need for communication in all relationships. Romantic and otherwise. And this is something that needs to be said, time and time again, until we can finally hear and feel it. Having spent a lifetime with a massively debilitating lack of ability to speak, on any level – speaking up for m